Part 3 of “How to Start a Divorce in New York”: So you sent the letter… and your spouse ignores it. Next step? You serve the divorce papers. And here’s the thing people don’t realize: the divorce “Complaint” is a form. It’s not a nuclear launch code. So if you get served, don’t spiral. Also: that “20-day deadline”? Important… but in divorce court, judges usually do NOT want default divorces, and they’ll look for ways to avoid it. 📌 Questions about serving divorce papers in NY? 📞 Call Port & Sa